In Memory of Ellen B. Lassonde
|What is Elements of Ellen?
The Elements of Ellen project was created in memory of Ellen Lassonde, a life-long resident of Norwich, who always presented herself well-dressed from head to toe. As a result, she appeared confident and, more importantly, competent. In partnership with Ellen' family, The Arc New London County began the Elements of Ellen project to help women and men with intellectual and developmental disabilities enjoy the same sense of self-expression and confidence that Ellen herself portrayed throughout her life.
The overall purpose of the project is to support women and men as they move toward an understanding of their self-presentation skills in the community and their life success. The heart of Elements of Ellen lies in the development of these self-presentation skills and the exploration of self-expression through empowerment groups, if desired, and through personal care and style. Particularly important is the vocational component of the project, which supports workplace self—presentation and professional success.
While the pilot year was successful, participants wanted and needed more than just the one day experience. They wanted to learn how to find the types of clothing they enjoyed wearing, find local stylists that they could access on their own, and how to plan for the expense of personal care. We also found that with the acquisition of these skills, participants were better prepared to represent themselves in an employment setting. With the appropriate social skills and dress, they became a viable candidate for a position that met the skill set they had.
The specific goal of Year Two was to provide people with intellectual and developmental disabilities (I/DD) with employment and life skills to successfully obtain employment and/or independently access community resources. The year-long educational course resulted in people with I/DD preparing for employment and independent living through development of social skills, appropriate workplace attire, financial management and building community partnerships.
The project targeted people who had a desire to or were currently living independently in the community, those looking to gain or retain employment, and those looking to learn about their community to become a more involved citizen. The project did not place restrictions based on income or skill level.
Elements of Ellen offered a total of 19 workshops/events. The project offered four courses, each with four classes. The project also hosted a kickoff half-day workshop and a holiday gathering, for a total of 18 workshops. The 19th workshop was a community event which served as an opportunity for current participants to implement the skills they had learned and share the concepts with potential new participants. The event served as both a skills assessment and a recruitment tool for year two. Workshops consisted of classroom-style conversation, interactive lessons, videos and special guests.
What we learned
It’s all about “me.” Our most effective lesson were ones designed around the interests of the people attending, and ones they could easily apply to their own life. It became our goal to help each participant understand and apply each lesson to their specific circumstances, whether it was employment, communicating in their homes or socializing in the community.
Stimulating the senses. Our best lessons were ones that participants could see, touch and manipulate the topics. We could talk until we were blue in the face, but the lesson finally “clicked” when participants had the chance to actually implement the skills.
We had to “go there.” We talked about many so topics, some of which were sensitive in nature. As facilitators, we had to get past the uncomfortable nature of the topics and create an environment where people could talk openly about caring for their bodies. Some of the conversations surrounding personal care were the liveliest and had the most participation.
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The Arc New London County
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Norwich, CT 06360